Paradigms are the belief systems and thought patterns that have been developing since you were a child. They can often come from your family or the environment that you have been exposed to.
Paradigms block you without you realizing it is happening.
I had a client whose intuition told her that in order to improve her income it was important that she place her candle products in other businesses. People entering each location could smell the wonderful scents, grab her card and purchase her candles.
For THREE weeks, she avoided taking the necessary steps to contact the business owners.
I recognized that a paradigm was getting in her way.
What she realized was when she was a small child, she had an experience of rejection that she had been holding on to ever since.
Once she recognized the fear that was holding her back, she made phone calls to reach out to the businesses. Within 10 minutes, she had three business that were willing to use her candles.
Are you wanting to find your soulmate?
My recommendation is for you to write down the 50 characteristics you would LOVE for them to have.
What do they look like? What kind of personality do they have? Do they like sports or walks in the park?
List everything that you think the ideal soulmate would have.
The next step is to BE everything on that list.
If you want them to kayak with you, go out and kayak. If you want them to enjoy doing dishes, wash dishes with joy in your heart.
This is you getting on the same vibration as your soon-to-be partner for life.
The last step is to EXPECT this person to come, but let go of how it will happen. Let the miracles of the Universe work in your favor.
Do you want to create the best year ever?
You made your resolutions, so now it’s time to follow through!
I would love to give you a few ideas to help you accomplish your goals.
First, write it down-don’t just think it…ink it. Writing is so much more powerful than just thinking, and it uses both the right and left hemispheres of your brain to build a stronger neurological bond. So that is a bonus in itself.
Write down everything you would love to accomplish or come into your life this year. After you write it, sign your name. This helps make a commitment to yourself to get it done.
Second, place the items in order of what feels the most energetically charged to you.
And third, with the top three to five, write a “by when date” that you will hold yourself accountable to getting them done. Then start taking the action steps to accomplish these goals.
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Are you feeling overwhelmed and would you like to have more peace in your life? Overwhelm simply means the feeling of not having enough time to accomplish what we would like to achieve.
This is what you can do. First, pause for a moment and take a deep breathe. Get your mind calmed down so you can think more clearly.
When you are in a more relaxed mental state you ask yourself, “What is the most important thing for me to do next?” When your intuition tells you the answer, you give that 100% of your attention.
We overwhelm ourselves by holding in our minds the ten things we need to get done. Don’t overwhelm yourself with EVERYTHING just focus on the next step. You can’t develop your entire website in a day, but you can simply create the domain name. Take baby steps and get there bit by bit. The greatest things are created one step at a time.
Make your to-do list, but decide the top item to focus on and let the others go until that specific item is complete....
There is an answer to every question and a solution to every problem.
The key is asking those empowering questions to find out what the Universe can bring to you.
This is what I suggest to my clients:
Get a three by five card and write down the question you would like to have answered. Be specific and clear.
"What's the next step in the direction of my dream?"
"Where is my workout CD?"
I use this second example because I had a client who wanted to improve her health. She wanted to find her workout CD because it had been effective before and she was going to do it again. So that was her question - Where is my workout CD?
Well, a couple days later, her daughter and her husband came up to her and suggested they all join a gym and hold each other accountable. She shrugged it off because it wasn't her CD.
The second tap on her shoulder was from her pastor. She went to church. And he actually said, "When you're working out, it's so important to find somebody that...
Martin Luther King Jr. said, "I have a dream."
We all have a dream—that vision of a life that we would love to be living. I want to encourage you to step into that dream to give it energy to make it come alive.
What's a step that you can do?
Write your vision statement.
There are four areas to envision:
Dive into these and write your vision for each. Think about what you would truly love because you don't know how to get there if you don't start writing it down.
That's a step that you can take today.
If you have not written a vision of the life you would love to live, write it today!
If you already have your vision, read it often.
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How do you tell the universe that you mean business?
You make a decision.
It doesn't matter how small or large it is. The point is you're giving energy to it. You're telling the universe, "I mean business."
Make that phone call that will take 30 seconds (especially if it feels scary!)
Invest in yourself, if that's what you're supposed to do.
You know the next step, but you have to reach out of your comfort zone because that is where the magic happens.
My client Ingrid reached out of her comfort zone.
She signed up for coaching. And the next day she got a book deal.
What was her dream? She wanted to have a business being a professional translator. When she made that decision, she gave energy to her dream.
Here's what she said about her experience:
"Working with Laura was life changing for me. I learned how powerful and important my mind is in creating the life I want. With Laura’s guidance and the accountability of the program, I was able to...